Yes, it could be hypocritical, except for marriage planning ; if it's the bride's first wedding, she frequently can have as elaborate a marriage as she pleases. Hang out the "don't Annoy unless you have money " sign. Wedding tablecloths for sale. The bride must avoid the full length robe and veil. And photography costs should not be too high if you'd like to have the nicest stills on your big day. So look around in your neighborhood for pro photographers that suit your requirements, and do not charge too high. Are the photos pro and outstanding? Observe his professionalism by asking his past clients ( if you know one ) on his punctuality and behaviour.
Did he come on time for their wedding? Were the agreements made smoothly? Did they have any disagreements later on the price? Was he respectful or dominating in the picture-taking? Asking questions not only about the standard of his work but also on his professionalism and character will considerably determine your over-all satisfaction, and will make sure each buck you pay him is worthwhile. Book as early as is possible, say six months from your day. If the youngsters are at the marriage you can invite the grandparents. Kids age seven or eight can be in command of the guestbook or pass the cake, while older children, say thirteen or fourteen can be an attendant if they are entirely privy to the importance of the occasion.